Blessings

This past weekend gave me an insight into how much has changed and has been going on since Little Man arrived a month ago. He has really settled in and so have we. For the first couple of weeks, I was a little overwhelmed with things as far his crying and tantrums were concerned. Now, (thanks in part to “The Happiest Toddler on the Block”) I am learning to speak his language and not take the outbursts and hitting personally. He is blossoming and soaking up so much—songs, ABCs, sounds, words. He has been part of our little family for a month, but also a large extended family with two sets of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who care about him.

After Mass on Sunday, we went downstairs for a breakfast benefitting the Cub Scout pack in the parish. Two of our nephews along with their parents were working the breakfast. The three younger kids came over to our table to say hi. All of them were so sweet to Little Man and our nephew D said, “Hola, ‘A’!” And when we were leaving, he said, “Adios, ‘A’.” D’s effort to speak to the the little one in his own language was sweet. After he finished his breakfast, he, “Pepe” (John’s dad) and I sang “Froggy Went a Courtin’,” which is one of Little Man’s favorite songs. He comes in with “Ahh-HUHHH!” He sounds like a little donkey. :0) This little boy has so many people who care for him and for this temporary time, has a full family. It made me realize how lucky I was to grow up having my parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins.

Yesterday when I was talking to my sister, she said that her daughter who is nearly four wanted to ask me about our little boy. She got on the phone and said, “Hi, Aunty Lou. Can you tell me about the little boy?” It was so sweet . I hope that someday, God willing, they can meet.

Last night I mentioned to John’s mom that we are stretched pretty thin as far as time goes, but so far, we’re not feeling overwhelmed. This is thanks to our family and friends who have helped us out so much: my mom and dad made us a meal last week; people are praying; people have graciously given advice and help; another friend offered her running stroller to us! (shortly before she called, John and I had JUST talked about looking on Craigslist for one). It is also due to John cleaning up the kitchen and taking care of Little Man so much.

In a nutshell, this month has taught me at least one thing---family and friends are the best.

Enjoy this photo of Mr. Hollywood and a (very patient and sweet)dog.